The transformation industry is lying to you.
Oct 03, 2025
Have you ever noticed how we try to change our lives from the top down, instead of starting at the roots?
We rearrange our environment with new planners, new jobs, and new routines. Or we tweak our behaviours from diet and workouts to productivity hacks. Then we add skills such as another certification, a strategy, or a how-to workshop.
And yet, the same stuck feeling lingers. That invisible pressure or discomfort that keeps you constantly busy and burns you out in the process.
That’s because true transformation doesn’t happen at the surface. It happens at the roots.
Have you heard of the transformation pyramid? What most people teaching it miss is where ALL the transformation truly happens, at the roots (or soul level).
Think of your life like a tree:
• Environment is the weather around you.
• Behaviours are the leaves — what people can see.
• Skills are the branches you grow to reach.
• Beliefs and values are the trunk, feeding and shaping your direction.
• Identity is the root system — who you believe you are.
• And deeper still, there’s the soul-soil — the place of wholeness that holds it all.
If you only prune the leaves, the roots still feed the same story. That’s why willpower fades. That’s why motivation runs out. That’s why “working harder” only burns you out.
I know, because I was the energizer bunny, motivated, strong will power, completely burnt out, compromising my health and relationships, and I was still ticking. Until I couldn’t get out of bed one morning.
I was exhausted, angry for no reason, and depression was becoming a frequent companion. Life had become much too hard. So hard, it wasn’t worth living anymore.
And in that moment of discomfort, ready to end it all, I had an insight. What if I lived first? Neuroscience shows that the discomfort—the threshold moment—dissolves in 90 seconds if you are willing to feel it. On the other side, there is a new possibility that was not previously available to you. The brain rewires, your identity reshapes, and new meaning is created as you move through the discomfort.
It's mind-blowing. I know.
I realized for the first time I had never given life a chance. I was living a story passed down to me that said, “Work harder, achieve, prove you are worthy to take up space.“
I wasn’t looking for transformation; I just wanted to be myself again – the playful, witty, fun-loving person I knew I was underneath the bulldoze-through surface. And that journey is what led me to create Story Alchemy.
It walks you through 5 levels of awakening. At Level 1: Unshackled!, we awaken from the illusion – the story running your life, often in the background, unseen, and inherited. We meet the threshold moments you’ve been avoiding, numbing, suppressing, by trying to make yourself feel better instead of getting better at feeling
This is the beginning of dissolving the wall you thought was real and discovering the doorway that’s been there all along.
Because let’s face it, if nothing changes, the loop continues:
• The over-preparing.
• The people-pleasing.
• The approval-seeking.
• The loud inner critic that never rests.
• The quiet ache of being meant for more but never reaching it.
And this is the real cost: living another year in a story that was never yours to begin with.
That’s why I want to give you Level 1 of Story Alchemy, completely free. Not a sample. Not a teaser. The full first step of the journey.
Because once you feel the wall start to dissolve, you’ll know there’s no going back.
Message me to access Unshackled! f-r-ee. Only available for a limited time. And hurry, we start soon!
This is your moment to step to the edge of the threshold and say: No more. Not one more day in this story. I choose me.
Much love,
Marie-Josee
Is there something holding you back? Do you feel stuck, ashamed, unlovable, unworthy or depressed? Do you long to transform your life and create what you truly desire most?
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